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Be a Super Human
Of course we remember the figures portray Superman film. Christopher Reeve … When he figures portray Superman, he was so strong. But adversity has befall him, he experienced an accident while horseback riding, and now he was experiencing paralysis.
Superman is the super human, he is strong, does not fear the danger and always defend the people.
The question is: how can we become a super human?
Below are some ways to become a super human being.
Courage.
Most of us fear to a challenge. Maybe we do not like confrontation, or we may want to retrieve only the most secure way. But there is a time we must face the fear inside. To become a super human being, then we must dare to confront and overcome any fears of all the challenges that we have before. Discard far fear that appears, switch to the momentary attention to the excitement.
Optimism.
In everyday life we are exposed to the things to be positive and negative, and the chance is 50/50. Negative thinking habits can be very difficult and affects our lives. For that we need to change our way of thinking from negative to positive. How? You must speaking in a positive way. Act positively. Replace negative self-talk with uplifting messages that you tape to the mirror and day planner. And before you know, you will be thinking positive. Action precedes attitude. A good attitude is contagious, so the coop yourself with people who encourage and upbeat.
Self-determination.
Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? A person without goals is like a bus without a driver. Do not let the limitations, whether real or perceived, keep you from your goals. And do not listen to nay Sayers, although at times you think they should be right. You will be amazed at what you can do.
Not a bit of superhero in us all. Sometimes, it takes events that are not expected to bring out the hero. And sometimes, we can help other people see that the hero in himself.
Commitment levels
The 5 Levels Of Commitment In A Relationship And, How You Can Improve Relationship Trust. guys, this article written By Whitneay T. Vanwells to a person who sent question mail to her, u may check this out. I hope it will help you.
Dear One, I did your research on your question on love, and realized that there were many that were out there in the same boat as you, seeking to find love, or to help the relationship that they were presently in. Here is what I found in my research:
You have free will to choose to stay or go in the relationship, as fate is not written in stone, and can be changed every day through your choices. Yet, you show some difficulties in communication with him, and with commitment, on both sides. Just so that you know, there are 5 basic levels of commitment in a relationship:
1. Dating and going out together (No sexual intimacy at this level).
2. Dating each other only, (dating exclusively and some intimacy, not sex).
3. Engagement; a commitment to making the relationship permanent. Intimacy is OK here. By now you are making plans for a future together, and it is safe and constructive to trust at a physical level. Women who give in tosex before and on this stage, often pay the price of loosing their partner, and their dignity.
4. Marriage, the fourth stage, is the goal of the relationship. Sexual Intimacy allowed here =)
5. Stage 5 is supporting the marriage and working on maintaining the bond.
It is very important to go through each of these levels, and to spend time in each, while recognizing the needs of your partner, and your own needs as well. Talk to him, without pushing him.
When you push him to do something, you actually make him go the other way, the opposite way.
Talk to him, and just say, here is what I know about commitment, where do you think we are now. Once you agree upon this one thing, then you have a map for the relationship. Having a map for the relationship, takes the pressure off of both parties, and it is a very important step in developing a long term relationship.